Thursday, December 31, 2009

A loss that keep coming back...........

Recently as some of you know, we had a great loss in our family, I was impressed on how our 10 year old daughter, Ysabella, took the whole thing after all this wonderful lady was her best friend, Bella spent most of her first years of her life with this lady and she taught Bell a lot, then; reports started to roll in about how Bella was crying at school, so, Bells Mom took this one and explained, it was ok to be sad and talked about the great memories she had with this woman, again we thought all was good…. Then the rosary came up and bell did good the first half and then she lost it, she really took it hard, we got her a glass of water, we hugged her and got her calmed down and she was good, the next day was the funeral and she did really good….. Last week I walked into Bells room and she was crying again…. Well this hurt me, she was having problems, we hugged the tears away and all is good, Remember you can never be too close to a Grandma or a Great-Grandma, so if you have a Grandma out there no matter what kind she is, regular or great, give her a hug, buy her a plant, these people are the backbones of our families, they have been there and they have seen it………..

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